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All In

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Monday, February 11th, 2013

paulson-noir-poker-chipsI read a great Frank Bruni piece in the NY Times over the weekend about out all or nothing society. From food to politics to Social Media, we  live in an age of excess. I am certainly not immune to the trend having completed a Whole 30 Challenge in January. It was a great experience, but now the “hard part” sets in. 

The truth is, we can do anything for 10 days (Master Cleanse), 21 days (supposedly how long it takes to develop a new habit ), 30 days (see above) or 8 weeks (I’m sure there are plenty of others that I’m missing). The real challenge is sustainability. For me, this includes dragging my sorry ass out of bed at 6:00AM to be sure I get my workout in. It means learning to moderate (never a strong suit for me) other areas of my life within the context of — my life. While I was mid-challenge, I read another great article, this one on Salon about a cocktail writer who quits drinking to run the Chicago Marathon. It’s interesting not only to share her journey but also the pier pressure and post-goal letdown. 

So, I ask you, are you living cycles of extreme behavior? Do you binge and cleanse? Do months go by between workouts followed by short bursts of dedication? Have you considered how you might actually affect real, rewarding change by assessing your circumstances and augmenting attainable goals with maintainable behaviors? 

 

Get out of your box and start making real measurable progress today!

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Reflections on 2012

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Wednesday, January 9th, 2013

Grumpy CatHappy New Year, it’s January 9th and by now, most New Years resolutions have already been broken. By the end of the month; forget about it! So, rather than suggesting tricks and tools to “stay on track”, how about we look at a few simple things that really affect the quality of your life.

1) Don’t be “Grumpy Cat”. Too many of us walk around with a scowl so caught up in our own drama that we miss what’s actually going on around us. Next time you catch yourself all tensed up, stop, take a breath and look around. If things are really that bad you can go back to being a meme.

2) Stop judging people. Seriously, get on with your own life. Eat what you want, dress in a way that makes you feel good, get a neck tattoo, whatever floats your boat. Make your own choices in life and stop trying to feel superior by denigrating the choices of others.

3) While we’re at it, quit complaining. Let’s be very clear on this one — complaining is bitching about something to a person who cannot possibly do anything about it. Perfect example, telling anyone how horrible your commute was.

4) Don’t over consume. The next time you’re about to reflexively buy/eat/drink/read/watch/etc. take a moment to ask yourself if the consumption of this item will truly make your life better or are you just distracting yourself from a bigger issue. Stressed spelled backwards is desserts…

5) Don’t resent your life. You’re not a victim of circumstance, you’re a victim of your own choices. If something is “wrong” with your life, put on the big boy/girl pants and fix it.

6) Set goals (you knew this was coming). Honestly, take stock of 2012 and look at where you started and where you ended. How’d that work out for you?

7) Simplify. Pretend your moving to a house/apartment half the size of your current dwelling (hard to imagine for many New Yorkers) and get rid of half your “stuff”. Recycle it, give it to charity, whatever, just remove the clutter and then practice #4 with a vengeance. 

8) Move more. Running and the elliptical trainer don’t count, move more in everyday life. Walk, take the stairs, work around the house or in the yard, help a friend move, anything that gets you off the couch, away from the screen and out of the car.

9) Work hard then stop. Don’t take it home with you and whatever you do, do not take it to bed with you. I know how hard this is (I struggle with it daily) in today’s always connected world but eventually this catches up and before you know it — Grumpy Cat!

10) Cop to your shit. You know exactly what I mean. We all have our own, just be honest and deal with yours before you demand that everyone else deals with theirs.

 

Get out of your box and start making real measurable progress today!

 

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MED

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Thursday, December 6th, 2012

I’m reading Tim Ferris’ new book The 4-Hour Chef: The Simple Path to Cooking Like a Pro, Learning Anything, and Living the Good Life. I like Ferris’ books. I can’t say I agree with everything he comes up with but there’s always interesting and useful tidbits in every book. One of the things I was reminded of is MED, Minimal Effective Dose — how little can you do to achieve the intended results? It’s a great concept to apply to all aspects of your life; especially this time of year when it’s so easy to get caught up in the maelstrom of holiday activity and run yourself ragged trying to keep up. 

I though about the holidays and the inevitable round of NY resolutions we make and wondered if I can do less. How much social media is enough (personal and professional)? How hard should I really workout? How strictly can I diet before it becomes unhealthy? Can I redirect those efforts and that time toward something that will enrich my life and the lives of those around me? 

 

Get out of your box and start making real measurable progress today!

 
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Lies, Damned Lies & Statistics

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Thursday, November 29th, 2012

This week I read an article on a “news” site that will remain nameless stating that “basically all Americans over the age of 14 went shopping this past weekend”. That’s right, all 247,000,000 of us took advantage of “Black Friday” weekend deals. A sentient being might question how exactly that is possible. Easy, cook the stats to prove your point! It happens in politics, business, “journalism”, and sports bars across the land. In this particular case, the author notes in the last line of the story that the numbers include “those who visited websites”; numbers so loose it could even include news sites or the same person visiting multiple shopping websites. In the end, there is absolutely nothing to be gleaned from this other than a whole bunch of people were on-line over the holiday weekend. But, how many people read the entire article? How many glanced at a specious headline and shrugged at the decay of modern culture? 

In examining your business, industry, personal goals, even your hometown heroes, are you able to look beyond the numbers and assess the real situation? It’s easy to start with a “comfortable” premise and then selectively choose numbers or snippets of anecdotal evidence to support it. You can feel a righteous vindication for any lack of progress if you look for enough excuses and lies — oops I mean statistics, to back it up. 

 

Get out of your box and start making real measurable progress today!

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The Halfway Point

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Monday, August 13th, 2012

Life got in the way last week and I was unable to post an update about my 21-Day Fitness Challenge. However, at the halfwat point, I thought I’d take a moment and share some of the observations I’ve been Tweeting about over the past 10 days.

  • If you pay attention to mobility and intensity, even an older athlete can handle high volume training. The key here of course is taking care of your soft tissue. As you age, you’ll naturally lose some elasticity (do you feel stiffer in the AM now than you did 10 years ago?) but patience and persistence can keep you in the game. Another huge factor is varied intensity. It’s a simple equation, the harder your training, the longer your recovery. If, as I have been, you are looking for volume, you must temper intensity.
  • It’s difficult to train for volume OR intensity and diet at the same time. If you workout, you’re gonna get hungry! Your body needs food and sleep to recover. If you’re denying it one or both, you’re wasting your time in the gym. 
  • If you eat “right”, it’s almost impossible to overeat. I used FitDay for the first week and while I am appaled by the food choiced in their database, it’s very interesting to see what your putting in your tank. If you cnotrast that with how you feel overall and how you’re performing in the gym, you’ll quickly see how important food is, especially once you’ve reached a “certain age”. 
  • Lastly, use a Foam Roller. If you don’t know what/how, do a search on YouTube then buy one and use it — daily!

As I go into the back stretch on this program, I assume, as I did in the first half, that I will miss a day or two due to soreness or work demands but overall, I am learning a lot about where my body is at 53 and how hard I can push it in the future.

It feels good to be out of the box…

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Lifting the Skirt

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Friday, August 3rd, 2012

Ok, so it’s three weeks until my 53rd birthday and I’m attempting a difficult 21-day challenge. Sure, its only three weeks but it’s also every damn day! 

Here’s the deal…

EXERCISE

Squat everyday – that could mean heavy triples, 10/8/6, 5×5, 2×15, 1×20, Tabata, 10 min. ISO Hold, Jump Squats, Depth Squats w/ KB, etc. but squat every day between today and August 24th. I’ll also do some “assistance” work every day as follows:

Mon – Chest
Tue – Biceps
Wed – Shoulders
Thr – Back
Fri – Hips & Hammies 
Sat – Triceps
Sun – Traps

Obviously there will be plenty of warm-up/cool-down and if you want specifics, ask! If I’m using lingo that you don’t understand, ask! If you want to play along, ask! Do you see a pattern here?

FOOD

Warrior-like eating pattern – green tea, fruit for breakfast, salad for lunch, coffee in the afternoon if I’m feeling drained, BIG dinner (wine is ok as long as it doesn’t kill my macro profile for the week — in other words, if I’m having wine, I’ll pass on pasta, rice, potatoes, etc.).

SUPPLEMENTS

AM: Tribulus, 500ml water, 1T Fish Oil w/ D3
Meals: Glucosamine, Resveritrol, Amla C, Milk Thistle, Turmeric, Saw Palmetto, CoQ10, ALA w/ dinner
Pre WO: Tribulus, BCAA
Post WO: Protein and Creatine in coconut water
PM: ZMA

OTHER

Walk 2 miles (~45 min.) every AM (with the dog)
Sleep as much (8 hour MINIMUM!) as possible…

DISCLAIMER

I have done some serious strength and conditioning work in my past. I’ve lifted competitively (and lost badly but I still competed) and I’ve trained VERY hard with guys who understand what that means. I’m not recommending that you try to do this, I’m experimenting with MY limits and challenging you to question yours! Follow my weekly blog and daily Tweets for updates. If it’s working, I may also publish my FitDay log.

 

Get out of MY box and start making real measurable progress today!

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What’s in the Tank?

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Thursday, July 19th, 2012

I’m about to head out for my annual beach vacation and when I return, I’m going to devote my August blog posts to Fitness Over 50. As you know from a previous post, I have always been an active person and more than willing to experiment on myself. So, when I return from vacation, I will spend 21 days in a strict and difficult training program based on a plan devised by someone half my age. The theory I’m testing is that even in your 50s, you can work hard but you also have to work smart. 

Each day, for 3 weeks, I will squat. Could be heavy, could be light, could be Tabata; who knows. I’m coming off an injury so I’m liable to be a bit rusty but I’ll let my body dictate the pace and the load. Additionally, I will do something else while I’m in the gym (again, I’ll let my body tell me what it wants) and be sure to stay loose and healthy. 

On the diet front, it’s lots of supplements and a Diet Log. This will be tougher for me than the workout side of things but equally (if not more) important. My thought is that I will blog weekly and Tweet daily about my experiences and if I can muster up the courage, I’ll take the Diet Log public as well. 

 

 

Get out of your box and start making real measurable progress today!


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Why so SAD?

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Monday, July 2nd, 2012

I posted a link to this article on Facebook and Twitter this morning but then I got to thinking about it’s context and what I wrote a few weeks ago about credentials. 

If you or your loved ones are struggling with weight issues, get off the Standard American Diet, it’ll save your life. SAD was constructed by corporations who produce and package food. They receive Government subsidies to grow it and tax advantages to package and distribute it. They have teams of scientists tweaking formulas that will light up your pleasure centers and compel you to overeat. They will peddle horrible food choices to the exact people who should be avoiding them. 

But seriously, don’t believe me! Do your own research, ask your own questions, try eating differently and see how you feel. There are plenty of great programs out there to help if you need them and chances are, you do…

 

Get out of your box and start making real measurable progress today!

 
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Summer Reading List

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Thursday, June 21st, 2012

Happy first day of summer 2012! Here’s a short list of some good reads for those lazy days at the beach or weekends by the pool. Let me know if you’ve read any of these or if you have other suggestions. 

The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business  - A great book about how habits are formed and how they rule much of our day-to-day activities.

Lights Out: Sleep, Sugar, and Survival – Americans get less and less sleep every year. While somewhat dated, this book helps illuminate the causes and consequences of living with a screen in your face 24/7.

Steve Jobs – No explanation needed…

Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail (Oprah’s Book Club 2.0) – An incredible memoir from Cheryl Strayed.

The Path to Power (The Years of Lyndon Johnson, Volume 1) – I loaded this on my Kindle app on my iPad just in case it’s all rainy for my beach vacation. 

11/22/63: A Novel – I haven’t started this one yet either but I’ve pre-ordered the paperback. Great reviews and it’s a nice bookend to Caro’s LBJ volumes.

 

Get out of your box and enjoy your summer! 

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Determination

By Kurt Holm · Comments (0)
Thursday, June 14th, 2012

“Let us not be content to wait and see what will happen, but give us the determination to make the right things happen.” – “Horace Mann

Determination, will power, discipline; whatever you want to call it, it is a key factor in determining your success or failure when attempting to change habits or shift behavioral patterns in life and business. Certainly the best laid plans begin with a clear goal and a detailed list but ultimately involve some form of “shift”. Problems arise when the time comes to actually do something different which takes will power. Study after study suggest that humans possess a limited amount of will power and it’s up to you to decide how you’ll use yours on a day-to-day basis. 

Let’s assume you have a goal of increasing sales and have decided that referral networking (excellent decision) is your best course of action but, even the thought of asking for a referral makes you break out in a cold sweat. Regardless, you are determined to put your plan into action starting today. Congratulations, you’ve taken the first step! Now most of us would assume that the biggest obstacle to successfully taking action would be the aversion to the activity, I contend that the biggest obstacle is how the rest of your day played out. If you finally dragged yourself out of bed after the third snooze alarm feeling like you’d been asleep for 5 minutes total, you’re late getting the kids ready for school and the dog walked (in the rain), only to arrive at the office to a stack of “urgent” messages and a box of donuts in the break room (which you’ve vowed to avoid because of those pesky 10 lbs.) — you’re screwed. Just sitting at your desk has cost you an enormous amount of will power and odds are good you won’t muster enough reserve to do the thing you dread the most. 

So, what’s the point? Am I suggesting that if your morning sucks, you pack it in for the day? [that would make me the least successful but most beloved consultant on the planet] No, on the contrary, I am suggesting that you understand the dynamics of change and the importance of setting yourself up to win, not fail. Studies suggest that it’s possible to improve habits across a broad range of activities by merely focusing one one key habit so if you exert discipline in the planning phase, you have a much greater chance of success. Take a moment, look at some of what you’d consider key changes in your life or business. What would it take to achieve results and (be honest) how much will power will it take to get there? Where have you tried but failed in the past? How can you use that data to succeed today?

 

Get out of your box and start making real measurable progress today! 

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